Welcome to the WealthBuilders Podcast with Karen Conrad Metcalfe and Ray Patterson discussing how to develop leaders with clarity and compassion.
Karen and Ray list key principles of effective leadership, sharing stories about helping employees succeed, handling tough conversations with compassion, and guiding team members through promotions and challenges. Learn the importance of honest feedback, mentoring future leaders, and striking a balance between management and leadership roles.
Tune in to gain an understanding of employee “sweet spots,” and how to avoid the Peter Principle.
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Shownotes
Basic Struggles in Leadership
- Being promoted to mid or senior level management at a young age.
- Initial naivety and a desire to make the world right for everyone, causing frustration.
- A leader’s role is to help employees get what they are working for, whether it is promotion or job satisfaction.
Understanding Employee Needs and Promotions
- Help employees get promotions to free up spaces for new hires and to send out ambassadors for your organization.
- The “sweet spot” is determining when people are prepared to be promoted—not too early or too late.
- The Peter Principle is when people are promoted to their level of incompetence.
- It’s important to identify and support employees in their sweet spot.
- Tough conversations with employees who are not performing well are necessary and it’s important to do it in a loving and straightforward manner.
Handling Employee Performance Issues
- When an employee’s performance and attendance decline, a tough conversation is required.
- Involve a mid level manager in the conversation to ensure it is not seen as disciplinary action.
- The goal is for the employee to respond positively, and express a desire for help (employee assistance program).
Developing and Mentoring Employees
- Schedule periodic conversations with employees to understand their current season and future aspirations.
- Mentor people to take over your job, providing them with opportunities to stretch and grow.
- Be honest with employees about their readiness for promotions and provide them with the necessary skills and opportunities to advance.
Advice for Aspiring Leaders
- Handle with care situations where employees think they are ready for promotions but are not.
- Be receptive to employees’ aspirations and honest about their readiness, while also providing opportunities for them to learn and grow.
- Have straightforward conversations with employees and allow them to fail in a teachable manner.
- Share big changes with employees as soon as possible to help them understand and prepare for what’s coming.
- At some point a leader will need to let someone go.
- Being straightforward, fair and firm on an employee will generally be appreciated.
- Treat employees with respect and fairness, even in tough situations.
